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Piri D.

Hurt People, Hurt People

“Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and everyone else” ~ 1Thessalonians 5:15

But always try to be kind, good, and nice to each other … and everyone else. What do ‘each other’ mean in this passage? Paul talks to church members… so we should first and most be kind to our closest people: to our family members, close friends, church members … AND everyone else.

Often is easier to be kind with strangers, because they don’t hurt you. Those close to you are more likely to hurt you more often. So how do you respond? They are rude, so you are rude. They poke you, you poke them back, they don’t invite you to a family event, next time you’ll “forget” to add them to the guess list, they don’t call for your Birthday, so you don’t call either and the list goes on and on.

Today I went shopping with someone who will visit my relatives and I picked up something to one of the family members. The person looks at me and said: why do you worry to send her anything when she didn’t send you anything when I came to your place.

Because, I just don’t want to be like her. How often do we complain about someone’s unfair treatment, but we want to somehow make them feel what we felt. By paying back to those who hurt us, with the same treatment we become just like them, we become the person whom we criticized.

Unfortunately, our human nature wants to pay back the wrongdoing to those who do wrong to us. Why? Because we were hurt and hurt people, hurt people! The only way we can escape this circle is by giving our pain to our Father. When someone hurts me, I go to God and confess that it hurts, I don’t pretend.

In prayer I will tell my Father: “Dad, I been hurt today. It hurts, that they don’t remember me, it hurts that they didn’t send me anything, it hurts that they don’t even want to talk with us, we are family, we suppose to love each other, Dad it hurts. Please take away my pain, I want to forgive them, but on my own I can’t. So help me to forgive them, help me to love them, help me to love them just the way I would of if they would have been nice to me. Thank you Father that you love them, help me to be able to extend your love to them. Amen”

When you give away your pain to God, when you ask him to help you move on…God will come and comfort you and somehow give you a compassion for them and you’ll start loving them even more. Jesus said: “But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” ~ Matthew 5:44 Ouch…this is not easy to follow. I honestly believe without God is impossible. When you give God your pain, he will heal your heart and restore the brokenness. You’ll only be able to extend love if you receive it first.

When someone hurts you, go to God first and with his help choose to just return blessing over them, act the way you would of act if they would have been wonderful to you. Trust me, they will be shocked. God did the same with us, when we cared less about him,when we turned our back on him, when we choose to do our ways, when we purposely did what we knew is wrong, God choose to give us his best, God choose to love us with this undeserved amazing love, God over showered us with his blessings, just to get our attention and be in awe of him.

Let’s see what a difference we can make in those around us if we choose to pay back with good for bad.

P.S. I'll let you know how she'll react when she'll receive her gift.


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